Why I write
CJ Samuels
I am the youngest of nine children and I’m
a “PK”. We all know them. Those preacher’s kids that sing in church, teach
Sunday school and clean the building when necessary. We did what we were
expected to do, but we did it willingly. It was part of our life. My parents
gave all they had to their family and their church. One of the things my dad
said often was, “I put God first, your mother second and everything else fell
into place.”
I don’t think I truly understood the
meaning behind those words until mom was sick. She had a neuromuscular disorder
and lost her ability to walk. She had diabetes. Worst of all, my mother had
dementia. It was a long decline that lasted many years. She was a complicated
woman when she was well. When she lost the ability to walk, she was so
frustrated, there were days I felt it was impossible. I didn’t know how dad
could continue taking care of her. He did. My sisters and I helped. We took
turns taking care of her so that dad could continue pastoring. One of us always
sat with mom and he never missed a service.
Mom was no longer able to get out of the
house easily and the church decided to have their Thursday evening prayer
meeting at my parent’s home. They opened with prayer. My aunt brought her
guitar and before they started singing, mom asked us to open her hymnal to the
correct page. She took the open book and laid both her hands on the pages. The
singing started and my sister’s eyes, and mine, filled with tears. Mom was
singing. She lost most of her eyesight at that point. She was almost deaf. I
had not heard her sing in years. She knew every word by heart. There was no
bible study that night in their living room. We sang until mom fell asleep in
her recliner. I’m convinced God gave us a last glimpse of the mother we
remembered most. The one who loved her hymns.
Dad promised mom that he would not put her
in a nursing home. He kept that promise. I believe he kept every promise he
made her. The example he set in his children’s minds is hard for anyone to
match.
When we lost mom, my dad was the strong one. He missed the woman he had
been married to for 54 years. He said simply, “she’s gone home.” Dad knew the
reward waiting for them both. Their treasures were laid in heaven.
It
was rare that he had free time when we were growing up. He worked a full-time
job, along with reading his bible daily. On occasion, you could find him with a
western in his hands. Louis L’amour was one of his favorite authors. He gave me
my love of westerns. When mom was gone, you rarely caught him with a book,
other than the bible. Every day he was reading and searching it. I remember
many times that people would call him to ask where a scripture or a story was
found. Dad found a way, just like he did from the pulpit, to make their
question relate to life before he let them go.
My dad was a pastor, but I always saw him
as a story teller. He would start every message by reading scripture, then he
would relate those words to his life and the congregation. I learned many of
dad’s childhood stories from his sermons.
Then my dad got the big ugly “C”
diagnosis. He struggled with a choice of treatment. His age, he had some other
health issues. He wanted to know what his quality of life would be if he chose
treatment. All of his children stood behind him. He chose to have the surgery
and chemo. We rejoiced the day of his last chemo treatment. It was a Tuesday. On
Thursday, I took some food to his house, hugged and kissed my dad and headed
home. Forty minutes later, my sister called and told me to come to the
emergency room immediately. Dad had an aneurysm. All of my brothers and sisters
made it to see him. Dad went to his heavenly home.
Time passed and it never failed that
when my family got together, we told stories of mom and dad. Between the
stories dad told from the pulpit and sometimes from his recliner, we all kept
saying we could fill a book. I’m now doing that.
In every book I write, there is a story
from my family. In Christmas in Trace Hollow, the story of Santa in the church
was real. It happened when my dad was a child and he had Santa at the Christmas
program every year. My next book, Elli, introduces you to a very real pet we
had. Herbie was a goose that drove my mother crazy. You will also meet a dog named
Pickles, that my mother said was a boy and she was convinced was dying. “He”
was actually a she that was giving birth in our barn.
Most of the names for the Trace Hollow,
Montana series come from my great nieces and nephews. Trace Hollow is a real
“holler” in the hills of Kentucky.
My goal was to get some of my parent’s
family history written down and share it with not only the next generations,
but share them with readers. I chose to put them in the form of westerns
because I dearly love mail order bride stories. I hope that some of the mail
order brides found true happiness.
My promise to my readers is that every
time you laugh while reading something that I have written, it came from the
heart of my family. I want you to share the joy that comes from having a huge
family.
I want you to have a happily ever after.
It is my dream come true to give it to you.
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CJ Samuels was born and raised in rural Ohio. After more than twenty years working in service at an auto dealership, she picked up the proverbial pen and began writing, thanks to a lot of encouragement from her family and friends. CJ always has a pot of coffee on, and a welcoming chair, for anyone who needs to talk. CJ was the daughter of the local preacher and had three kids of her own. From attorney, to finished construction builder, to a Marine - CJ's kids are her pride and joy. CJ has many "adopted" extra family members, including ten grandchildren that she claims as her own, along with her newest grandchild coming in May, 2016. CJ is a born and bred Buckeye fan. She has three rescue dogs, an English bulldog named Sammie, a chi-weenie named Lucy, and a beagle mix named Lucky. In each of her books, you will find stories from her family history. In her eyes, family is most important. amazon.com/author/cjsamuels newsletter sign up
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What a nice story. Thanks for sharing both C J and Penny.
ReplyDeleteStacey
Thank you, Stacey. I have thoroughly enjoyed this journey.
ReplyDeleteI have a hard time reading anything by CJ Samuels because she is a fraud. She promotes herself as a Christian but is a felon for multiple counts of writing bad checks. Her real name is Cindy Lambert but has been Cindy Linn, Cindy Pitt, Cindy Jones and Cindy Bear. She has multiple failed marriages, her children all have different fathers and her live-in boyfriend "Thor" (Thomas Lamprecht) is an atheist and drug addict. Not a very Christian lifestyle!
ReplyDeleteCan you spot the difference high school vs college?
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